小宛入冒氏之门后，与冒家上下相处极其和谐。马恭人(辟疆母)和苏元芳(辟疆妻)特别喜欢小宛，而小宛也很恭敬顺从。
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闲暇时，小宛与辟疆常坐在画苑书房中，泼墨挥毫，赏花品茗，评论山水，鉴别金石。
小宛腌制的咸菜能使黄者如蜡，绿者如翠。各色野菜一经她手都有一种异香绝味。她做的火肉有松柏之味，风鱼有麂鹿之味，醉蛤如桃花，松虾如龙须，油鲳如鲟鱼，烘兔酥鸡如饼饵，一匕一脔，妙不可言。
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小宛经常研究食谱，看到哪里有奇异的风味就去访求它的制作方法。人们常吃的虎皮肉，即走油肉，就是她的发明，因此，它还有一个鲜为人知的名字叫"董肉"，和"东坡肉"相映成趣。小宛还善于制作糖点，她在秦淮时曾用芝麻、炒面、饴糖、松子、桃仁和麻油作为原料制成酥糖，切成长五分、宽三分、厚一分的方块，这种酥糖外黄内酥，甜而不腻，人们称为"董糖"，的扬州名点灌香董糖(也叫寸金董糖)、卷酥董糖(也叫芝麻酥糖)和如皋水明楼牌董糖都是名扬海内的土特产。
而董小宛原又本是大名士冒辟疆的小妾，据说冒辟疆因顺治从他手中夺走董小宛而悲痛欲绝。说道:"梦幻尘缘，伤心情动，莺莺远去，盼盼楼空。倩女离魂，萍踪莫问。扬钩海畔，谁证前盟;把臂林边，难忘往事。金莲舞后，玉树歌余，桃对无踪，柳枝何处?嗟嗟，萍随水，水随风，萍枯水尽;幻即空，空即色，幻灭全灵。能所双忘，色空并遣;长歌寄意，缺月难圆。" 并写下了一阂《金人捧露盘词》，寄托悲思。
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===吴蕊仙===
名琪("琪"亦作"淇")，别字佛眉，明末长洲(苏州)人，世居花岸。其祖父[[吴挺庵]]在明朝位居方伯(布政使)，父亲[[吴健侯]]官至孝廉。吴的丈夫管勋，是冒辟疆的复社好友，因反清事败遇难。吴只身渡江投靠冒氏，冒将她安置在"洗钵池边的深翠山房"。吴女来到水绘园的时候，恰巧小宛刚刚去世，冒吴二人同病相怜，日久生情。
吴女死后，冒氏曾只身前往凭吊并有题词刻石庙中:"别离庙，春禽叫，不见当日如花人，但见今日话含笑。春花有时落复开，玉颜一去难复来。只今荒烟蔓草最深处，愁云犹望姑苏台。"
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===吴扣扣===
清顺治十八年，51岁的冒辟疆择定当年中秋节后的第二天(八月十六日)正式将贴身丫环吴扣扣升格为妾，不料吴女在六月间突然患病，于中秋节后二天病亡，年方19岁，但"吴如君"的名份已定，事实上她也早已是冒的人了。吴女葬如城南郊影梅庵侧"冒家龙圹"。